Ash Wednesday. . .

a day of repentance, 

a day to ask forgiveness for giving in to failings: 

anger, judgment, selfishness. 

Introspection, self-awareness and taking stock of ones self in relation to the world is important to living a good life. And our treatment of others, directly and indirectly, is a mirror of our interior life.

"There is no deeper pathos in the spiritual life of man than the cruelty of righteous people. If any one idea dominates the teachings of Jesus, it is his opposition to the self-righteousness of the righteous. The parable spoken unto "certain which trusted in themselves that they are righteous, and despised others" made the most morally disciplined group of the day, his Pharisees, the object of his criticism. In fact, Jesus seems to have been in perpetual conflict with the good people of his day and ironically justified his consorting with the bad people by the remark that not those who are whole, but those who are sick, are in need of a physician...

The criticism which Jesus levelled at good people had both a religious and moral connotation. They were proud in the sight of God and they were merciless and unforgiving to their fellow-men. Their pride is the basis of their lack of mercy. . .

Forgiving love is a possibility only for those who know that they are not good, who feel themselves in need of a divine mercy, who live in a dimension deeper and higher than that of moral idealism, feel themselves as well as their fellow men convicted of sin by a holy God and know that the difference between the good man and the bad man are insignificant in his sight . . ." - Reinhold Niebuhr, An Interpretation of Christian Ethics, ch. 8, "Love as Forgiveness."

Before Hemingway, there was John Donne:

No man is an island,
Entire of itself.
Each is a piece of the continent,
A part of the main.
If a clod be washed away by the sea,
Europe is the less.
As well as if a promontory were.
As well as if a manner of thine own
Or of thine friend's were.
Each man's death diminishes me,
For I am involved in mankind.
Therefore, send not to know
For whom the bell tolls,
It tolls for thee.

(For Whom The Bell Tolls, Originally posted October 17, 2009)
(Painting, “Ash Wednesday” by Carl Spitzweg)